Have you ever felt stuck in a rut? That feeling of not moving forward but doing the same thing over and over again? I so get that.
When I was a teenager, we took our cows up to a ranch in Wyoming for the summer. Supposedly, the fence was sound but we soon found out...the hard way...it wasn't. We ended up searching for our herd all summer. I loved it! Of course, I was a kid and the impact of losing our family income wasn't really in my awareness. What I remember was getting to go to this amazing mountain. The air so fresh, meadows, aspen trees, babbling brooks and cow searching. When we did find a cow it was so exciting!
Anyway, on one of our cow searching adventures, we got stuck. My dad, mom and I were in our 3/4 ton brown Chevy pickup. We landed right in the middle of a big old mud pit and there we were. Our truck was rear wheel drive. If you gave it too much gas it would just spin out. Not enough gas and you just sat there. It took two of us pushing, one driving ( I was a pusher). Pushing, gas on, rocking, pushing, gas, rocking back in forth until suddenly- out we went! It felt so freeing! We were all tired and at least two of us coated in mud from top to bottom.
This is the visual I get when I think of being stuck. A beautiful mountain surrounding one little family, a brown pick up truck, probably cows curiously watching and a mud puddle. While we were pushing and pushing, we didn't see anything but that truck and mud. It was only after we got unstuck did we once again smell that fresh air, hear the birds and see the mountain.
When you are stuck- for whatever reason, some work is usually needed to get unstuck. Habits have been formed, patterns, ruts created. It takes a little effort, focus, persistence and sometimes a bit of help to get your truck and life out of the mud.
As a coach, I get to work with lots of clients in transition from stuck to free. Clutter clearing is a perfect example of this, as is moving, shifting careers, changing family structures or finding a way out of the daily grind so you can thrive. I love it! I absolutely love helping people get unstuck. When shifts happen, I get just as much joy as I did when our truck popped out of that mud!
If you ever feel stuck in life, no need to fret. Get some pushing help, put your foot on the gas, keep rocking back and forth until you pop out. When out of your rut, clean your self off and go find your lost cows!
As always, I wish you great joy in your travels,